Have someone other than the sheriff serve your restraining order

After you get a court date for your gun violence restraining order, you must have someone give a copy of your court papers to the person you want a restraining order against (the other side in your case). This lets the other side know that a case was filed, what they can do next, and what they can't do (if there's a temporary restraining order). This is called serving papers.

Before you start

If a server doesn't deliver your restraining order papers, the policecan't arrest the person for violating a temporary restraining order (if the judge granted one) and the court cannot grant a restraining order that can last up to five years.  

You court papers still have to be given to the other side if you still want a restraining order. Even though you don't have one now, the judge can still grant a restraining order on your court date at the hearing. If you no longer want a restraining order, get free help at your local Self-Help Center or talk to a lawyer to learn how to cancel it.

How to serve your Petition for Gun Violence Restraining Order

  • Choose your server

    If you want someone you know or a process server to serve your papers, they must be: 

    • 18 years old or older, and 
    • Not part of your case

    You cannot serve your papers yourself. You can ask someone you know, hire aprofessional process server, or have the sheriff serve your court papers for free. 

    Think about your server's safety. If it might be dangerous for your server to hand papers to the other side, consider asking the sheriff to serve.

     
  • Know your deadline to serve

    Your server must deliver your papers by a deadline before your court date (hearingdate).   

    To see when your deadline for service is, look at yourNotice of Court Hearing(form GV-109). 

    • The number of days is initem 5 on Page 2. 
    • You must serve the person at least this number of days before your court date(the date in item 3 on Page 1).

    For example, if your court date is June 10 and the court ordered you to serve the other side 5 days before your court date, then your deadline is June 5.

    You can always serve before the deadline.

  • Give your server your court papers

    You will need to give your server

    1. A copy of all your court papers which will include:

     

    2. A partially completed copy of the Proof of Personal Service form (form GV-200

    • You should fill out items 1 and 2 on the form.
    • Your server will complete items 4-6 once the papers are served.
  • Serving the court papers (instructions for your server)

    Once you have given your server a copy of your court papers and form GV-200, ask your server to:

    1. Deliver your court papers to the other side as soon as possible and before the deadline
    2. Complete form GV-200
    3. Give you the completed copy of form GV-200 so you can file it with the court clerk. (Note: This form can be filed by anyone, including your server.)

    It is important that you check with server to see if they were able to serve the other side by your deadline.

    The judge cannot grant you a long-term restraining order without service. At your court date (see form GV-109, item 3), you will need to ask the judge for more time to serve the other side. The judge will sign a new order (form GV-116). You will then need someone to serve GV-116 with the other forms you filed (see form GV-109, item 5 for any other forms you must have served on the other side).

     

    What if the person I want a restraining order against won't take the papers from my server?
    The server may leave the papers next to the person and tell them what they are. For example, the server could leave the papers on the ground by the person and say, "These are important legal papers for you." If you've tried many times to serve the person, and you can show the judge that the person is avoiding (evading) service, you can ask the court for permission to serve your papers another way. Read What is Proof of Personal Service? to learn about your options.
  • Copy and file Proof of Service (form GV-200)

    Once you get the Proof of Service form back from your server:

    1. Make a copy of it.  
    2. File the Proof of Service form right away. When you file the form, take both copies (the original and extra copy) to the court clerk. The clerk will stamp and return the copy to you. The copy is for you to keep.
    3. Keep the copy of the Proof of Service and a copy of your restraining order (if you have one) with you at all times. Make sure you bring them to your court date, too.

    If the judge granted a temporary restraining order (form GV-110),

    once the other side (restrained person) is served, they can be arrested for violating your restraining order.
     

Prepare for your court date

What's next?

Once you’ve served your Petition for Gun Violence Restraining Order, learn what to expect at your hearing so you know how to prepare.

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