What to expect in the courtroom

Don't be late 

You could miss your turn if you’re late. If the court thinks you aren’t coming, the judge may decide your case without you. 

• Make plans to arrive early.

• Think about traffic, where to park, or how to get there on public transportation.

• Write down the phone number of the courtroom clerk. In case of an emergency, you can call and tell the clerk that you may be late.

Your court’s website may have information about where to park and whether you’ll need money to park. 

When you get to the courtroom

The judge will probably have multiple cases scheduled for the same time as your case. You can wait for your turn in the public seating area at the back of the courtroom.

Follow courtroom rules

Rules are usually posted outside the courtroom, but here are some common rules:

• Do not bring food or drinks 

• Turn off or silence your cell phone 

• Do not wear a hat or sunglasses on your head 

When speaking:

• Refer to the judge as “your honor” or Judge 

• Don’t interrupt anyone who is speaking

• Wait until it's your turn to speak and let the judge know you want a chance to speak

When your case is called 

You will take a seat at a table in the front

When the judge calls your case, you will sit at a table at the front of the courtroom. 

Someone, usually the bailiff or a clerk, will tell you which table to sit at.

The judge will ask who you are 

The judge will ask you and the other side to say your names. Then, you may be asked to swear to tell the truth. 

The judge will hear from both sides

You and the other side will have a chance to present your case. This is when evidence will be shared and witnesses will testify.

The judge will make a decision

Once all evidence has been presented, the judge will decide whether to grant a long-term restraining order. A long-term restraining order can last up to three years, and vary in length depending on the facts of each case.