Prepare for your court date

You should start to prepare as soon as you learn about your court date. 

How to prepare

  • Organize what you need to bring

    • Make copies of court papers. Take copies of all your papers to your court hearing, including a copy of your Proof of Service. 
    • Gather any evidence that the restrained person has violated your restraining order:
      • pictures (for example, pictures of injuries, damage to property)
      • text messages 
      • emails
    • Make 3 copies of any document you want the judge to see.
      • One copy is yours, one is for the other side, and one is for your court file. 
    • If you have recordings (video or audio), check in with your local self-help center before your court date.
      • Sometimes judges may require a transcript for a recording.
    • Talk to your witnesses. Witnesses are people who can help support your case.
      • If you have witnesses, take them with you to your court date. Make sure they know when and where to go.
    • Make notes of what you plan to say. 
      • It can help to plan out and make notes about what you want to say to the judge.
      • Read over the court papers in your case and write out anything else you want the judge to know. 
      • You can read from your notes in court if you need to.
    • Take a support person, if you want one. Your support person can sit next to you when you present your case. But, your support person cannot speak for you.
  • Prepare for your remote hearing, if needed

    If you know you will be attending your hearing remotely, by phone or by video:

    • Follow the instructions you received from your court.
    • If you plan to share evidence, like photographs, audio, or video, follow any instructions the court has on how to do that including how to send the court and other side a copy.
    • Review the remote court hearing section for more general tips about how to prepare.

    If you would like to have a remote hearing, contact the court to find out if it is an option in your case. 

  • Ask for court services if needed

    🌐 If you don't speak English well, ask for an interpreter right away.  

    ♿ If you have a disability, ask for an accommodation.

What's next?

As you prepare, find out what to expect in court. Knowing what happens in court can also help you plan what you will say.

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