File a petition to change your child’s name to match their gender identity

Once you complete your forms, you need to file them with the court and pay a filing fee. If neither of you can afford the fee, you can ask the court to waive it.

How to file forms with the court

  • Take your forms to the court clerk

    • If you live in California, go to the Superior Court in the county where your child lives
    • If you live out of state, file in the county that issued your child's birth certificate. Get more information on where to file if you live out of state.

    If there are different locations, check your court’s website, talk to your Self-Help Center, or find the closest court to you where civil cases are filed.

    At the courthouse, file the forms you filled out by giving the original and the copies to the clerk.

    The clerk will stamp the forms, keep the original and return the copies to you.

    The Order to Show CauseChange of Name to Conform to Gender Identity (form NC-125) is the form that orders anyone who does not agree to your request to file an objection within 6 weeks of the date the Order to Show Cause is filed with the court, which will be stamped in the upper right-hand corner of the form. The objection has to be for good cause, which means that there has to be a valid legal reason to disagree with your request.

  • Pay a filing fee

    You’ll need to pay a fee of $435-$450 to the clerk when you file your forms.

    If you and the other parent can’t afford the fee, you can ask the clerk for a fee waiver. You may qualify for a fee waiver if:

    • You receive public benefits
    • Your income is less than a set amount
    • You can’t afford the fee and meet your basic needs
  • Ask the clerk about your court's next steps

    The clerk will give the filed forms to a judge who will make a decision after a 6 week waiting period. After that, you can pick up a signed name change  order from the court clerk.  

    When you file, ask the clerk how your court handles this final step.  

Change a child's name to match gender

What's next?

Once you’ve filed your forms, you must wait at least 6 weeks while the judge makes a decision. Your next step is get the judge's decision.

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