Serve your response to set aside the VDOP
After you file your Responsive Declaration (form FL-385), you must have someone deliver a copy of the papers to the other parent. This is called serving papers.
Before you start
Choose mail or personal service
Serving means another adult, not you, mails or hands a copy of your Responsive Declaration to the other side (usually the other parent). This person is your server.
If your server mails the papers it's called mail service. If your server hands them the papers it's called personal service.
Unless the judge ordered something different, your server can deliver your Responsive Declaration by mail or by personal service.
Serve by mail only if you can still meet the deadline
Whether you choose mail or personal service you must meet a deadline
You need to file and serve (mail or hand deliver) your Responsive Declaration at least 9 court days before your court date. A court day is a day the court is open (Monday to Friday, not including any court holidays).
If your server mails your papers, they should do so well before the deadline. To make sure the other side receives the paperwork in time, your server should mail your papers at least 5 days before the service deadline. If they live far away, your server should mail it even sooner.
How to serve your Responsive Declaration
-
Choose a server
You can't serve papers yourself. Ask another adult – a server – to mail or hand deliver the papers.
Your server must be:
-
18 or over, and
-
Not part of your case
Your server can be someone you know. You can pay someone to serve papers, called a process server.
-
-
Figure out the deadline to serve
Unless the court orders a different time to serve, your server must deliver the papers at least:
- 9 court days before your court date.
A court day is a day the court is open (Monday through Friday, except court holidays).
If your server is mailing the papers, they must mail them at least 5 days before the deadline to ensure that the person receives the papers on time. If the person lives outside California, your server must mail the papers at least 10 days before the deadline if they are in another state, or at least 20 days before the deadline if they are in another country.
Take out a calendar.Find your court date (it’s listed on the first page of your Response). Don't count that day (it's day "0").
-
Count backwards from your court date on the calendar 9 court days (Monday to Friday, not including any court holidays or other day the court may be closed).
-
When you get to the 9th day, stop, this is your deadline to serve.
Your server must deliver the papers by this deadline.
-
Have your server mail or deliver the papers
Your server mails or hands these papers to the other side:
-
Copy of your Responsive Declaration and any attachments
-
Any other papers you filed (except any fee waivers)
If the other side has a lawyer, the server must mail or hand-deliver the papers to their lawyer instead.
If serving by mail, tell your server to write down the date and the address where they mailed the papers.
If personally serving, have your server write down the date and address where they handed them the papers. Your server needs this date to fill out the Proof of Service form.
If the local Child Support Agency is part of your case, your server must deliver a copy to their office as well.
No. Certified mail requires getting the other person's signature, which is often hard to do. Use regular (first-class) mail. -
-
Have your server complete the Proof of Service form
- If your server mailed the papers, you can use Proof of Service by Mail (form FL-335).
- If your server personally served, you can use Proof of Personal Service (form FL-330)
It helps if you fill in the top part of the form with the case and court information.
Your server can then fill in the information about how, when, and where they mailed or delivered the papers. Your server must sign and date the form.
-
Copy and file the Proof of Service form
-
Make a copy of your Proof of Service form.
-
File the original and copy with the court where you filed the papers. The court will stamp and return the copy.
-
Keep the copy of the Proof of Service form for your records.
-
Respond to a Request to set aside support
What's next?
Once you’ve served your Responsive Declaration, learn about what to expect at your hearing so you know how to prepare.