What to expect on your court day

You may have a court hearing as part of your request to change your child's name, though not always. If you do have a hearing, here's what to expect during your day in court.

Before your court day

Make sure you have to show up at the hearing

In some courts, the judge may order the change of name without a hearing as long as you followed all the steps required. If you forgot to ask the clerk about the hearing when you filed your papers, call the clerk’s office now to make sure you have to show up.

If your hearing was cancelled because the judge already signed an order changing your child's name (called a Decree), then you can pick up your Decree. You will likely need to get a certified copy of the order in order to change your child's IDs and other records.

Your day in court

If this is the first time you've been in a courtroom, review some basic tips about how to plan for your day in court.

You may need to wait before your hearing

Keep in mind that other people may have a hearing the same day as you. Your case may not be called right away. You may end up waiting a few minutes or even more than an hour before it’s your turn.

The judge calls your case 

Walk to the front of the courtroom

When it is your turn, the judge will call your names and say your case number. You go up to the front. Someone, usually the bailiff or a clerk, will show you which side to take and tell you to sit down. The bailiff is usually the person in charge of keeping order in the courtroom.

Tell the judge your name and answer their questions

The judge will ask you to say your names. If your child's other parent is there (or anyone who objected), they will also come up. Then, you may be asked to swear to tell the truth.

The judge may ask a few questions, like why you’re changing your child's name or whether you published the name change papers.  

The judge makes a decision 

The judge will mostly likely make a decision at your hearing. If you are missing information or proof of publication from the newspaper, the judge may ask you to come back another day.   

The judge signs the Decree

Once the judge makes a decision, the judge will need to sign a court order, called a Decree in name change cases. If the judge grants the name change, the judge will sign the Decree. If the judge decides against the name change, the request will be denied. 

  • If you turned in the Decree, form NC-130, when you filed your case, the judge will sign that and the clerk will file it. 
     
  • If you were told to hold on to the Decree until the hearing, turn it in to the judge to sign it and the clerk will file it.
     

  • If you didn’t prepare a Decree ahead of time, you may be given one to prepare yourself at the hearing.  

Make sure your Decree (form NC-130) says exactly what the judge ordered and has your child's new name spelled correctly.
 

In some courts, Self-Help Center staff may be able to help you with these forms.

Name change

What's next?

If you didn't get a copy of the signed Decree at the hearing, you will need to get a copy. Once you have a signed Decree, next you'll likely need to get it certified. This means a clerk stamps that it is a real copy of the original order.


The next steps tell you how to pick up your signed Decree if you don't have it yet and also how to get it certified once you have it.

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