Before you start
Get familiar with a few key terms
The way you fill out these forms will impact the outcome of your case, so it’s important to do it correctly. The forms include some terms that may be unfamiliar to you. You can read more about these terms:
- Community and separate property
- Date of separation
- Spousal support
- Child custody and visitation
- Child support
Consider getting help
Confirm where you can file in California
To file for divorce in California, either you or your spouse has to have lived in California for the past 6 months and in your current California county for the past 3 months.
This is known as meeting the residency requirement. You can file for divorce in any county where one of you meets the residency requirement. Check which county you could file in if you're not sure.
To file for a legal separation, one of you must live in California. There is no requirement for how long that person must have lived in California.You can file for a legal separation. Then, you can change (amend) to a divorce once you meet the requirements. Learn about legal separation.
If you married in California, but now live somewhere that doesn't allow divorces for same-sex couples, you can file for divorce in the county you married. The court can end your marriage, but may not be able to make decisions about property, support, or children. Check with a lawyer to find out more.
If your domestic partnership is registered in California, you don’t need to meet the residency requirement. But, if neither of you meet the requirement, the court could end your partnership, but may not be able to make decisions about property, support, or children.
If it’s not registered in California, you will need to meet the residency requirement.
Fill out forms
Fill out these forms:
Once you file the Summons and Petition, there are things you can’t do without written agreement from your spouse or a court order. They’re called Standard Family Law Restraining Orders.
Petition — Marriage/Domestic Partnership (form FL-100)
This form asks for basic information about your marriage and the type of orders you want the court to be able to make about things like spousal support and property.
Summons (Family Law) (form FL-110)
The Summons tells your spouse that you've started a court case and that they have 30 days to respond.
For example, you can’t:
- Give away or hide money and property
- Change insurance beneficiaries
- Take your children (if you have them together) out of state or get them a new passport
Read page 2 of the Summons for a complete list. These same rules will apply to your spouse once they’re served.
If you and your spouse have children together, you will also need to fill out:
- Declaration under Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (UCCJEA) (form FL-105)
You must fill out this form if your children are under 18. This form tells the court where your children were born and live and if there are any other court cases involving them.
On the forms, you're called the petitioner because you're the one starting the case. Your spouse is called the respondent.
Figure out if you need the court to decide something right away
You may need to ask for something right away, rather than waiting until your divorce is final. For example:
Where your children will live
You may need financial support from your spouse
You may need to figure out who stays in your home or pays bills
There's a process to ask the court to decide by requesting a temporary order. You’ll need to fill out more forms.
Make copies of your forms
After you’ve filled out the forms and signed the Petition, make 2 copies of both forms.
Once you’ve completed the forms and made copies, you’ll file them with the court.