Change your child's name to match their gender identity

You start the process of changing your child's name to match their gender identity by filling out court forms.

These instructions are only if one parent will sign the petition. 

 

How to fill out your court forms

  • Fill out forms

    You will need to fill out these forms:

    • Petition for Change of Name (form NC-100) (make sure to check box 6)
    • Name and Information about the Person Whose Name is to be Changed (form NC-110). On Item 7c, explain you're changing your child's name to match your gender. Then, attach to the NC-100.
    • Order to Show CauseChange of Name to Conform to Gender Identity (form NC-125)
    • Civil Case Cover Sheet (form CM-010) (some courts do not require this form)
    • Decree Changing Name Form (form NC-130) (fill out the boxes at the top and Item 3)

     

    If you are changing your child's name and your child is in the:

    • State Witness Program, or
    • Safe at Home address confidentiality program and are changing your child's name to avoid domestic violence, stalking, or human trafficking, or are a victim of sexual assault,

    then, you can ask the court to keep your child's name change confidential. You will still need to serve the other parent. Talk to your Self-Help Center to find out options. 

    If you're worried about safety, there are people that can help you come up with a safety plan to keep you safe at home, work, school, other places that you go, and online. To learn more about creating a plan, go to the National Domestic Violence Hotline or call 1-800-799-SAFE.

    You will need to pay a fee when you file the forms ($435 - $450).  

    If you can't afford the fee, fill out another form to ask for a fee waiver.
  • Find out if you have any local forms to fill out

    Some courts have local forms you have to use.

    Contact your court clerk’s office, check your court’s website, or talk to your Self-Help Center to ask if they have any local forms you need to use. Your court's Self-Help Center may also be able to review your forms before you file them.

  • Make copies

    Make at least 2 copies of all of your forms. When you file them, the court will keep the original and return the copies to you, stamped.

    One copy is for you. The second copy is for your child's other parent.

Change a child's name to match gender

What's next?

Once you’ve completed the forms, you’ll file them with the court clerk.

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