How to serve a restraining order
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Serve by mail or in person
Look at item 13 on form WV-130 to see if the judge ordered you to serve by mail or in person. If you are ordered to serve by mail, this means your server only has to mail a copy of the restraining order. But serving someone in person is always best. When you mail court papers, it may be hard to prove that the person actually received a copy especially if the person moves a lot.
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Choose a server
You can't serve your court papers yourself.
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Give your server a copy of your restraining order
Your server will need a copy of your restraining order (form WV-130 and any other form that is included in your restraining order). The sheriff may have paperwork you need to complete. If you need help completing forms, you may want to bring someone with you to the sheriff's office.
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Have your server complete a form
A form called "proof of service" must be filed with the court to prove that the restrained person was served.
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File the proof of service form
Make a copy of the completed proof of service form. Take the original and the copy to the courthouse to file with the court clerk. The clerk will keep the original and return the copy to you. Keep a copy of the proof of service form with each copy of the restraining order (form WV-130). Be sure that each protected employee also has a copy of the proof of service form and a copy of the restraining order.
Then you won't need to file a proof of service. Make sure the sheriff gives you a copy or you can get one from the court clerk. Keep a copy of the proof of service form with each copy of the restraining order.
Get help if your restraining order is violated
Call 9-1-1 if you want the police to enforce your restraining order.
For stalking resources, contact:
- The Stalking Hotline to chat online, or call or text 1-855-484-2846. The hotline is available Monday-Friday 6am - 2pm.
Enforce your restraining order
What's next?
Now that you have a restraining order, you may need to enforce it if the restrained person violates the order. Also, there are other steps you may want to take to help enforce the order.